Rick and I decided to get up and take the dog for a walk on the river trail before going to visit mom in the morning. It was far too beautiful this morning not to get out…..Idgie got to come along and cuddle with mom a little. I hate to admit this but her cat was calmer than my dog when visiting. Idgie clearly wanted more attention than mom had to give, but sat tight until we were kicked out so the bedding could be changed. We then headed over to mom’s house to do a little yard work. It’s good exercise and I have to admit I feel like an idiot hiring someone to do what we are perfectly capable of doing. There’s something kind of relaxing in doing yard work anyway…..
Mom was quieter than last night and she didn’t eat much today, but at this point, we’ve learned not to be too alarmed with little changes since we know they happen every day. My friend, Vivian, said she was going to visit her this afternoon. She went there several times while we were gone, but I never thought she would go once we were back….she’s pretty amazing!
We planned to meet some friends for a fish fry and some good music this evening, but stopped by to visit with mom before we headed out. She was still not talking much or very interested in eating or drinking. She never has the TV on and I asked her what she thinks about when she is just lying there when she doesn’t have company. She said, not a hell of a lot. I bet…..She was very sweet though, and Rick and I were both in tears when we walked out.